Every single one of us sees ourselves as being worthwhile in the world. This isn’t untrue, of course, as every human life has value. Yet, there are some people who are considered to be “more valuable” than others. In this case, we’re not talking about financial worth, but personal worth. The best way to understand this is in — ironically — financial terms. Are you an asset or a liability?
What is an asset?
In simplest terms, an asset is something that adds value to something else. When we want to apply that to a person, the best way to understand it is that someone who is an asset is going to the cause of positive change and growth in life. For example, an asset will:
- Support those around them: An asset is going to recognize that they have a role in supporting the jobs or roles of others around them. They will see themselves as a cog in the wheel rather than the most important thing.
- Offer guidance when possible: An asset is always doing what they can to help everyone else find success. Sometimes it’s through support, like above, but other times it’s through guidance or suggestions when someone asks for help.
- Do what they can to keep moving forward: Just because an asset is helpful doesn’t mean they don’t have their own goals. When the going gets hard, an asset will acknowledge that it’s difficult, but keep going on anyway.
What is a liability?
In a general sense, a liability is the opposite. It is something that holds you back and deliberately takes value and energy from you. A liability as a person will take away someone else’s value and often use it for their own gain. In person-terms, a liability will:
- Do what they can to get ahead: Their only goal is to get to the top — whatever that may mean in their situation — so they won’t waste time supporting those around them.
- Be focused on their own needs: Since they are focused on themselves and their success, they will only do what they have to do to help themselves onward. They won’t offer guidance or advice even when asked directly for it.
- Always strive to be in front: When someone else gets credit, a liability will assert themselves however they can. They may even take credit for other people’s successes. Their only focus is to get ahead.
How do you understand which you are?
If you want to know which of these you are, you’ll need to start with making sure that you are honest about your approach to life. These can all apply to relationships, work and even within your family relationships. Be honest with yourself and take a look at your own behavior to see which of these is more realistic to your mindset, your outlook, and even your actions.
Even if you discover that you align more with a liability person, it’s never too late to transform into an asset! Knowledge is power, after all.